Man, I feel like a woman...

In all my life, I have never been as comfortable in my own skin as I am now. It is a beautiful thing to find yourself and lose yourself all at once. 

A couple of years ago, I got very sick. I had to take some pretty harsh drugs for over a year that caused me to gain 90lbs and lose some of my hair. I struggled with it hardcore, and I hated my appearance. 

This year, I made the decision to get my life back and gain control of what had caused me pain on so many levels. I have worked hard at eating better and working out, and I am proud to say that as of today, I have lost all 90lbs I gained! 

On top of that, there is someone who makes me feel wanted, cared for, protected, safe, and more like a woman than I have felt in a very long time...if ever. He has helped me in ways that he will probably never know, but I am so thankful for this time. I don't know where this will end up. What I do know and truly believe is that God brought us close for a reason. If that reason is that I needed someone who completely understood my feelings and supported me through a difficult time, then so be it.  But right now, he is my rock and has been there for me through some pretty ugly times. He gives me sound advice and is truly respectful of my feelings. I feel at peace with him and more calm than I have ever been. He reminds me to calm down and that I don't need to know everything about what my future holds. He's a good man. Actually, he's the best kind of man. 

Man, I feel like a woman...on fire and full of life. 

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